If you would like to be married at St. Bede’s the first step is to meet with the parish priest.
You will then be required to participate in a marriage preparation course facilitated by Anglicare. This preparation involves a relatively small commitment in relation to preparing for a lifetime partnership.
Marriage preparation courses are designed to strengthen and affirm relationships. No relationship is perfect. We are able to grow closer together and to learn how to love and be loved more fully.
These courses aim to facilitate that through;
- reminding you of the strengths of your relationships
- developing areas that need work
- teaching about managing conflict
- improving communication skills
- encouraging you to enjoy and bring out the best of one another
For more information please contact:
- The Rev. Ruth Mathieson
Ph: 0408 353 781
- Parish Office
- 200 Military Road, Semaphore
- Ph: 8449 5064
- Email: email@example.com
- Mail: PO Box 111, Semaphore, SA 5019
Download the Confirmation of Marriage Plans Form
Diary Dates 2021
[Please refer to our What’s On page for details of activities.]
3 Minutes of Silence against Gendered Violence
Parish Christmas Morning Tea
Is There Room (Family Christmas Story Event)
Holy Communion (with carols)
Ideally weddings are sacred occasions that are formal and meaningful, but relaxed. They are not meant to be performances, but occasions to be enjoyed by everyone, especially the bride and groom! The service is usually between 30 – 45 minutes. The form of service is from the current Australian Anglican prayer book and can be adapted. You will be given a copy to go through and discuss with the priest. Couples usually print off orders of the service for guests, either:
- the whole service or
- only the parts that everyone says, with the section headings
Please show the priest a draft copy before printing!
The Church may be able to provide a musician for a fee or suggest other musicians such as a vocal soloist, pianist, guitarist, or string quartet. Other music is optional.
Readings usually include one from the bible, but you may have more. Readings from other sources (e.g. contemporary, Shakespeare, a poem) can be used as well, as long as they convey an appropriate message.
Are fine, but no pins, blue tack, sticky tape thanks.
If you wish to have fresh flowers in the church for the wedding you are welcome either to purchase arrangements from a florist and arrange for them to be taken to the reception venue or to make your own arrangements using the church vases and urns.
Please ask your guests not to use confetti. Rose petals are fine.
This is usually the Thursday prior to wedding around 6.00 pm.
All legal paperwork is organised for you.
Notice of Intention of Marriage (Blue) form
It is a legal requirement that this form must be signed and witnessed by the priest between 3 months and 1 month prior to the wedding.
It is a legal requirement that these must be sighted by the priest before the wedding. Extracts are not legally acceptable.
Hall hire for a Reception
See our Hall Hire page for details of hall and hiring costs.
Summary of Costs
The cost is $600, which covers the church and priests’ fee. As of July 2020, fees have not increased since 2006. The church is booked for a wedding upon receipt of a deposit of $100
Cheques can be made out to “The Anglican Church of Semaphore”
Changing your name?
For legal requirements see – https://www.sa.gov.au/topics/family-and-community/births-deaths-and-marriages/certificates/apply-for-a-change-of-name-certificate